Expectations Kill Creativity
These haikus came into being when I caught myself predicting Monday (any Monday) would be a downer, an unproductive day. Based on what? I asked myself. After all, I’m retired. I don’t have to appear…
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Find Beauty In The People
Look for what is good in people!
It seems we are experts in finding flaws, catching mistakes, and looking for imperfections in people. But very few times we search for beauty, for good things and great qualities in people. But it’s not right, we should keep things in balance. If we are looking for vulnerabilities, we should look for greatness also so then we can build better relationships with people. Look, analyze, and try to discover the beauty, the things that make someone unique and you will delight and surprise yourself.
Even if someone is the worst person in the world we can still find multiple great things in him/her. None of us is flawless but it doesn’t mean we only have flaws, we have good things too. If we will keep looking for unpleasant things, we will kee finding unpleasant things and we will keep hating. If we will keep looking for goodness, we will keep finding goodness, and we will keep loving. The point is not to ignore bad things about someone to look for good things, the point is to help when we see something bad or something damaging in someone. Instead of making people feel bad or inferior about themselves, we should choose to help them when we are letting them know about their flaws. And we should let people know about their good things and qualities also to make them feel good.
Whenever we treat people when they do something against our expectations, we should not start yelling at them immediately, instead of this we should analyze and look for the reasons behind the result that we see after someone’s performance. It is our collective responsibility to make each other feel good because we are all connected as a part of humanity.
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